Foreigners often find ways Japanese people look for love to be quite odd. Japanese tend to find their partner somewhere close by such as at work which Europeans and Americans consider strange coming from countries separating work life from personal life. Our foreign guest watched a matchmaking party, the standard way for Japanese people to look for love nowadays. We also visited a school where men build skills on communicating with women. Looking for love is a universal theme yet methods vary. The theme gives rise to a heated debate!